One phrase I constantly use is, "Life is about developing relationships." They are not all good. I have learned more from bad experiences and enemies than people I get along with. I also believe strongly in learning from mistakes.
I like to people watch. I learn from others all the time. I like observing how people do things, and why they do them. I take my observations of others-whether good or bad, and apply them to my life. Sometimes it's a trick or phrase, other times I see how I would not want to act in certain situations.
My schema has developed as combination of two things:
- direct learning from those whose opinions I really cherish and respect
- silently observing others
Now that I am in college I feel like I can be myself.
A common theme I have found running through college kids is how much more accepting they are of others when they get to college (just as Dan stated). If we are more accepting of others, and stand up for what we believe in, it is much easier to impact others. Also, higher institutions of education have less people who are naive or close-minded.
I use my competitive drive as a means to influence change. I don't think I am going to change the world, but I do think I can change a few lives. Also, by simply shutting your mouth and opening your eyes and ears, you would be amazed at what you can learn. The only chance I have for change is that those who listen/pay attention take to heart what I have to offer.