Thomas' Thoughts on Ch. 6 by: Thomas

I have come to understand my own schema through my surroundings growing up. Just like everyone else, my parents were very influential. They molded the way I live my life. There have been a couple of family friends who I have sought advice from. Throughout the years, I have had numerous coaches. There have only been a few special ones that have impacted me on a level outside of athletics. They taught me things about life and simply used sports as a means to an end. My friends have also influenced me greatly.

One phrase I constantly use is, "Life is about developing relationships." They are not all good. I have learned more from bad experiences and enemies than people I get along with. I also believe strongly in learning from mistakes.

I like to people watch. I learn from others all the time. I like observing how people do things, and why they do them. I take my observations of others-whether good or bad, and apply them to my life. Sometimes it's a trick or phrase, other times I see how I would not want to act in certain situations.

My schema has developed as combination of two things:

• direct learning from those whose opinions I really cherish and respect
• silently observing others

I think high school is childish and simply the gateway to college or the rest of your life. Looking back, I think of how many times I went against my morals or beliefs simply to fit in. I also think people need that 4 year experience to help them determine what they want to or don't want to become.

Now that I am in college I feel like I can be myself.

A common theme I have found running through college kids is how much more accepting they are of others when they get to college (just as Dan stated). If we are more accepting of others, and stand up for what we believe in, it is much easier to impact others. Also, higher institutions of education have less people who are naive or close-minded.

I use my competitive drive as a means to influence change. I don't think I am going to change the world, but I do think I can change a few lives. Also, by simply shutting your mouth and opening your eyes and ears, you would be amazed at what you can learn. The only chance I have for change is that those who listen/pay attention take to heart what I have to offer.